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Motivating Teens to Do Well in School
Let’s face it; you want your teens to do well all through their lives. If you can motivate your teens to do well in school, the chances are better that they’ll also do well after graduating from high school. Sometimes, knowing how to motivate them is the difficult part.
The desire to motivate your teens to do well in school should be commended. It shows that you are concerned about their future. The objective is to shift that concern for their future to them while they are still young.
Having teachers that enjoy the subject they teach, even passionate about the subject, can make all the difference in how well a teen is motivated in school. It’s said that enthusiasm is often transferred from one to another; this would be a good example of that fact.
As a parent, be sure to give positive feedback when your teen has a good report card. Be genuinely attentive in what their dreams are for the future. Talk to them about how their good grades can be used as a launch pad for getting into a school that has their chosen field as a major.
Threats and nagging really don’t work to motivate children of any age, so it is usually best not to use them in regard to school work. However, rewards can be used if grades are brought up from rock bottom to passing in a semester. Yes, it may seem like you’re resorting to bribery, but if it might be worth it if it works.
How you talk to and treat your teens can also have a motivating effect on them. They want to know that you don’t think of them as children any longer. You may want to tell them that if they want to be treated like an adult, they need to act responsibly. This means they have to be serious about school and how they do while there.
Inform them to the fact that how and what they do in high school can have a great effect on their future. If they are doing their best and all their grades are Bs or Cs, don’t be too upset with them. Know that they are working hard and let them know that you’re proud of the effort they are putting forth. Let them know that you love them no matter what grades they get. As long as they put forth their best effort.
Don’t be afraid to let your teen learn from failure. It can often be an excellent motivator. In fact, allowing them fail and then asking them about why it happened and how they feel about it can help them learn a lesson that they may not learn in any other way. Don’t forget to ask them what they could have done differently to get the outcome they wanted.
You’ll probably never be able to make your teen do what you want to. However, if you can find a way of motivating teens to do well in school, you can rest assured that their future will be brighter than if you had left them to their own devices. You may also find that your relationship with them improves along with their grades.
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April 24, 2009 | Filed Under Teens
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